Messy by Design

A Guide to Human Design (That You Will Not Follow Perfectly—in Fact, I Forbid You to Follow It Perfectly!! Because that’s literally IMPOSSIBLE!!)

Listen, you’re not always gonna get this Human Design stuff right.  

You just won’t. Sorry!

Perfection is a scam. 

You’re a human, not a robot, and that’s the whole point of human-ing.

Human Design is not about making perfect, aligned choices in the moment.

It gets to work as a tool that helps you look back at decisions you’ve already made and saying:

"Ok… maybe that wasn’t exactly in alignment. But where can I still course-correct?"

That’s what I call Retroactive Alignment.

It’s not about dwelling on the past.  It’s about shifting your energy NOW, even if your past self made a messy, very-human decision.

And it will…because you are a, say it with me now…HUMAN!!!

Human Design is about:

✔️ Learning to notice patterns in your decisions
✔️ Making choices that feel better and easier over time
✔️ Giving yourself grace when you “mess up” (because you WILL mess up)
✔️ Realigning faster and with more self-trust

Get Your Messy by Design Guide

Inside the Guide: What You’ll Get

  • A No-BS Breakdown of your Human Design Energy Type (without the pressure to get it "right")

  • How to Use Retroactive Alignment - a tool to help you stop obsessing over past decisions and realign with ease

  • A Special Human Design Meditation to help you step into your energy type naturally

  • Journal Prompts to help you integrate your design (without overthinking it)

This is your permission slip to use Human Design in a way that actually works for you, aka...imperfectly.

👀 It’s here! Get first access for FREE!

I don’t have all my sh*t figured out.

I have many things figured out—like how to how to pivot when something doesn’t feel right, instead of forcing it to work. How to embrace seasons of uncertainty without making them mean I’m failing. How to build a business that reflects me—not just what others say will “work.”

But even the things I have figured out now, have come through looking back on past messy moments with my coaching and human design lense.

For a long time, I thought Human Design was something I had to “get right.” That if I just understood my chart deeply enough, followed my strategy and authority perfectly, and made every aligned decision ever—life would magically make sense.

It does not work that way.

I’ve learned that I will never follow my design perfectly, and I don’t have to.

Human Design isn’t here to make you some hyper-aligned robot who always knows exactly what to do. It’s here to help you look back, notice patterns, and realign when sh*t inevitably gets messy.

That’s why I created Messy by Design—because your Human Design isn’t a rulebook, it’s a tool.

✨ You don’t have to get it right.
✨ You just have to get curious.
✨ And you get to realign as many times as you need to.

So if you’ve been waiting for permission to do this imperfectly, this is it. Let’s get messy.

Kitty