Messy by Design
A Human Design Guide to Help You Realign with Your Energy Type — Even When It Feels Like You’ve Gone Off Track
Get Your Messy by Design Guide
Inside the Guide: What You’ll Get
✨ A no-BS breakdown of your Human Design Energy Type
🔄 A tool for Retroactive Alignment (stop obsessing, start realigning)
🧘🏽♀️ A meditation to naturally step into your type
📝 Journal prompts that won’t make you overthink
🎁 Permission to do this your way—not perfectly
This is your permission slip to use Human Design in a way that actually works for you, aka...imperfectly.
Kelly said: “Redefining 'mess' has been so powerful. I used to think I was failing—but now I see it as part of the process. And that realization has brought me peace.”
Debbie shared: “Kitty’s Human Design offering gave me permission to feel without shame. I feel so much lighter this week.”
“You are not broken, you are human - it is messy by design! :-) I am so thankful that I took some time to delve into human design with Kitty. Throughout this course she was a wonderful teacher and guide - I learned a ton! Thank you!” - Amy
“This is unbelievably on point. I feel so SEEN. I want to spend 24 hours going deeper—it’s helping me understand myself on a whole new level.” - Abby
For a long time, I thought Human Design was something I had to get right.
If I could just understand my chart deeply enough… follow my strategy and authority perfectly… make the “right” decisions every time… then life would finally make sense.
But it didn’t!!
What did make sense was this: I’m human. And I’m going to make messy decisions sometimes—ones that look good on paper but feel totally off in my body.
Human Design didn’t “save me.”
It gave me a language for what I was already experiencing.
It helped me look back on moments where I forced things, doubted myself, or ignored my inner knowing—and instead of spiraling, I could say:
“Okay. That was off. Now, how can I realign?”
That’s what this is really about.
I created Messy by Design to offer you the same gentle lens I gave myself.
Not a rulebook. Not a blueprint.
But a tool to help you meet yourself with curiosity and softness—even in the mess.
I don’t have it all figured out.
But I am learning to notice sooner when something feels off—and to pivot, gently, instead of forcing it to work.
I’m working on sitting with the uncertainty without spiraling or making it mean I’ve failed. Some days, I can hold that space with ease. Other days, it’s a bit messier.
And even though I haven’t “arrived” anywhere perfect, I can look around and see a business—and a life—that’s slowly starting to reflect more of me… not just what I was told would “work.”
Every aligned step I’ve taken has come from a misstep first.
From a moment that felt unclear, confusing, or too much.
And then, eventually, a realignment.
That’s why this work means so much to me.
Not because I’ve mastered it. But because I’m in it with you.
You don’t have to do Human Design perfectly.
You just have to stay close to yourself as you learn, unlearn, and remember what alignment actually feels like.
And you get to begin again—anytime you need to.